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Memories of Sellersville, Pa, written in Bucks County Herald – February 2, 2006 friends of Ralph Sr & Jr-  Heart and John Rufe.

Today we look at Sellersville 50 years ago through the eyes of two Bucks County Court of Common Pleas Judges, William Hart Rufe III and his younger brother John J. Rufe. Actually there are four siblings: Hart, Elizabeth, John, and Robert, but my chat was with the two judges.

            Not only does Sellersville play an important part of their lives but so does Lafayette College. The three sons are grads as are three of four of Hart’s children. Their father, William, was Sellersville’s Postmaster and their mother, Frances, taught in the local schools. She was bilingual…English and Pennsylvania German.

            Hart graduated from Sell-Perk High School (before the Pennridge school district was created. Look at how the population grew. Hart’s class of 1950 numbered 73. Seven years later, John graduated with a class of 170 from Pennridge and Bob had 270 in his (’63).

            Hart recalled the Liberty Bell Trolley and rode it both ways to Allentown and Norristown. It must have been a thrill to roar down Cemetery Hill…under the Reading Railroad bridge into Perkasie, just before the Sellersville station. “I remember riding the Reading to see [Philadelphia] A’s and Phillies games,” Hart began. “We always took in double headers…that was how to get our money’s worth.”

            “I remember the summer days at the playground,” his brother, John, told me. “Each day, I’d walk by the [Walter Emerson] Baum house on the way home.” John thought it was unusual to see the famous artist painting winter scenes on hot, humid days.

            The Sellersville playground [a few blocks from the Washington House] was the key to summer activity for the Rufes and all the town’s children. “Earl Druckenmiller ran the play ground,” Hart continued. “Earl owned ponies and a stable. We had pony rides every day. “Lindy” was our favorite pony. We played baseball, tennis, and swam in the pool. Earl arranged pick up games for us with teams from Perkasie, Lansdale and Hatfield.”

            It was in scouts that Hart became a birder. Ralph Waite Sr was his scoutmaster and a birder. “We two were the only birders that we knew,” Hart added. “In the spring during migration, every morning at 6:30 we’d watch birds in the parks. Once we counted 15 species of warblers in 90 minutes. Today, maybe we’ll see 15 species of Warblers in a weekend.” Hart’s wife, Jewel, is a birder also. “I’ve kept a life list [of birds],” he said. “I’ve seen 754 different birds in North America…over 2,000 world wide.”

            After 17 years on the Bucks bench, Hart retired. “His last official act was marrying my wife Cynthia and me,” John said. Today, Hart is a mediator and Senior Judge in Lehigh and Northampton Counties.

It’s natural that his love of open space steered him toward the Heritage Conservancy where he is its Chairman, having served on its board from 1974 to the present.

John was a photographer for the News Herald in his senior year at Pennridge. “I was sports oriented,” he said. “I remember John Landy and Roger Bannister breaking the four minute mile in the same race [won by Bannister]…it was perceived to be an impenetrable barrier. Landy led the entire way, but Bannister won with his famous finishing kick (3:58.8).” What a memory, John!

It pays dividends to have judges in the family. When their niece, Jill Jackson, was married, three Judge Rufes performed the ceremony: Hart, John, and John’s wife [Cynthia] a federal judge.

written by Charles Meredith

 

Bucks News

Retiring Judge John Rufe honored with portrait unveiling

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

 

DOYLESTOWN -- As a standing-room-only crowd filled Courtroom 1 of the Bucks County Courthouse Dec. 17, retiring Court of Common Pleas Judge John J. Rufe was feted by an array of family, judicial colleagues and well-wishers. The event also featured the unveiling of Judge Rufe’s official county portrait, which will hang in the courthouse as a lasting tribute to his public service.

Sharing stories of Judge Rufe’s distinguished career on the bench were his older brother, Judge William Hart Rufe, criminal defense attorney Louis Busico, Court of Common Pleas Judge Albert Cepparulo and his wife, the Hon. Cynthia Rufe. Unveiling the portrait were members of Judge Rufe’s family – including his children and grandchildren.

Judge John Rufe spoke of his youthful adulation of his brother, of his gratitude for being a member of the Bucks County Court of Common Pleas and his love for his family and colleagues. Bucks County President Judge Susan Devlin Scott emceed the event, adding that Judge Rufe has been asked to continue his county service as a senior judge.

Judge Rufe was also honored with commendations and proclamations from Pennsylvania Gov. Ed Rendell, State Supreme Court Chief Justice Ronald Castille and by Bucks County Commissioners Charles Martin, chairman; James Cawley and Diane Ellis-Marseglia.

In the words of the commissioners’ commendation: “Throughout your career, you have been widely recognized for sensitive and thoughtful adjudication in the field of child custody litigation. You also have authored landmark decisions on the subject of open space preservation zoning. Your reputation for civility, even temperament, courtesy and rectitude has been a constant, both on and off the bench. On this memorable occasion, we extend our appreciation of your enormous contributions to the Bucks County community.”

 


The Ancestry journey start with a romantic attraction
 
Nature in life, find the hummingbird seeking a flower to draw out the nectar from within. The hummer seeks exploration of new flowers to renew itself - not romance. Our ancestors each had a mating with romantic attraction. Their family relationship was built based on a forming of a bond with a soul mate. But in some cases there were several marriages. Some were due to a death others were due to new renewal mating attraction. It may have been a way of renewing their soul. However, it all started with an instant of personal explicit romance.
We have some direct and documented examples of how this romantic attraction can be used for building a tree full of family cousins. The dna is the engine and the soul is the fuel of the mind.
 


DNA link raise new questions between Richard W. Wilson and Dora Wilson
Ralph Waite DNA results


   Fred B Waite
 b.1868 Adams, Jefferson Co., NY
 d.1941 Flushing, Queens Co., NY
 Earle Chester Waite
 b.1889 Adams Center, NY
 d.1987 Bethlehem, PA
 Isadora Wilson
 b.1865 Camden, Oneida Co., NY
 d.1922 St. Luke's Hospital, PA
 Ralph Dexter Waite
 b.1915 Allentown, Lehigh Co., PA
 d.1980 Grand View Hospital, PA
 John Dexter Osborn
 b.1849 Depauville, Jefferson Co., NY
 d.1935 Sandy Creek, Oswego Co., NY
 Bessie Irene Osborn
 b.1893 Sandy Creek, Oswego Co., NY
 d.1932 Bethlehem, PA
 Elizabeth Massey
 b.1868 MI
 d.1902
 Ralph Dexter Waite
 b. Private
 d.         
 Edward Mackway
 b.1842 NY
 d.1915 Chicago, Cook Co., IL
 Harold Jessup Mackway
 b.1875 Chicago, Cook Co., IL
 d.1957 Hanover, Jefferson Co., IN
 Louise Jessup Newton
 b.1844 AL
 d.1937
 Naomi Florence Mackway
 b.1917 Hilltown Twp., Bucks Co., PA
 d.1997 Grand View Hospital, PA
 Philip Weinbauer
 b.1828 Darmstadt, Hessen, Germany
 d.1917 Maywood Village, IL
 Louise Rosina Weinbauer
 b.1877 Maywood Village, IL
 d.1947 Norristown, PA
 Johanna Kline
 b.1839 Prussia, Germany
 d.1914 435 South 11th Ave., IL

Family Group

Husband

Fred B Waite       
  Born: 21 FEB 1868 - Adams, Jefferson Co., NY
  Marr: 28 JAN 1888 - Home of Isadora, Adams, Jefferson Co., NY
  Died: 24 FEB 1941 - Flushing, Queens Co., NY
Father: George W Waite
Mother: Anna Beyerle
Other Spouses:
Wife

Isadora Wilson     
  Born: 10 SEP 1865 - Camden, Oneida Co., NY
  Died: 18 JUL 1922 - St. Luke's Hospital, Fountain Hill, Lehigh Co., PA
Father: John E Wilson
Mother: Harriet Hannah Daniels
Other Spouses:
Children

1. Earle Chester Waite         
  Born: 7 JUN 1889 - Adams Center, Jefferson Co., NY
  Marr: 1911 - Bessie Irene Osborn (other spouses)
  Died: 20 AUG 1987 - Bethlehem, Northampton Co., PA 2. Frederick Howard Waite      
  Born: 9 AUG 1891 - Syracuse, Onondaga Co., NY
  Marr: 1914 - Octavi M Worden
  Died: 12 FEB 1966 - 3. Agnes Harriet Waite   
  Born: 15 MAR 1903 - Adams, Jefferson Co., NY
  Marr: 1926 - Oscar Henry Hoppe
  Died: 24 JUN 1929 - Flushing, Queens Co., NY

*********************************DNA comments & research

 
In comparing 12 markers, the probability that Mr. Richard W Wilson and Mr. Ralph Dexter Waite Jr. shared a common ancestor within the last...
Comparison Chart
Generations Percentage
4 33.57%
8 55.88%
12 70.69%
16 80.53%
20 87.07%
24 91.41%

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However, these results can be refined if their paper trail indicates that no common ancestor between Mr. Richard W Wilson and Mr. Ralph Dexter Waite Jr. could have lived in a certain number of past generations.

If you don't know this information for a fact, do not change the "1" in the box in the next paragraph. However, if you have the information, please enter in the box and click on the recalculate button.

Mr. Richard W Wilson and Mr. Ralph Dexter Waite Jr. did not share a common ancestor in the last generation(s). (Because the important factor in calculating the time to the Most Recent Common Ancestor is the number of generations between which mutations could take place, the number of years per generation is irrelevant in FTDNATiP™ calculations.).

 

 
New Waite family puzzle to investigate.

According to Family Tree DNA Ralph and Leon Waite are two of my closest genetic matches in the entire FTDNA database.  I had over 600 matches at 12 markers, but according to FTDNA it is due to my very common projected R1b1b2 haplotype.  I ordered an upgrade to try and filter out those results not close to me, and hoping some of the folks whom already had a 25 or 37 marker test done and where on my 12 marker match would come back as an even closer match at either 25 or 37.  To my surprise, only 2 people in the entire database came back as a close match -- you and another person that share the same name.  I'm writing to see if there may be anything to it. 

Is there a tradition in your family of migration to either Israel or Mexico?  Is there a name in your family history that is Dawer or similar to it? Or perhaps Dayan or Kaplan?  Or any history of Jewish heritage anywhere in your family tree?  If any of those are true then perhaps there is some long lost connection.
Levi Herrera-Lopez   USA
 

Records show Leon Masters Waite Jr,   4 FEB 1907 - ABT AUG 1978         Index

Burial:   
     Date:   AFT AUG 1978
     Place:   Mobile, Mobile Co., AL

Individual Note:
     Was manager of the Battle House Hotel in Mobile, AL. Was manager of the Atlantan Hotel in Atlanta, GA. Was manager of the DuPont Plaza Hotel in Miami, FL. Was manager of a hotel in San Juan, Puerto Rico.
Lived at 27 Magnolia Ave., 8th Ward, Daytona, Volusia Co., FL in 1920. Lived in Jackson, Madison Co., TN in 1936.

Well we assume dna cannot be wrong so you must have a link. I find from search history our romantic ancestors were travelers and may have had many casual or close personal contacts. People often do not suspect this role in making families.
But as a familycousin.com search effort we suspect everything is possible.
Ralph

 

Texas Chili and Dylan's Thunder Mountain - seekers of the nectar hummers never get to taste

There are positive role models within each generation who pass on the legacy dna & soul to their kids.


Alden and Jennifer, Deborah and Bud


Kelsey, ?, Kate, Ashley, Jenn, Nate : Grandkids ->Amazing


Louise Weinbauer Vaillancourt
Grandmother was a beautiful woman and did not deserve the life hardship she was given with Harold Sr many shortcomings.
But he did give her a beautiful family of children.
That is his legacy with sperm which was the only success he knew how to give.

Eunie; Louise, Mabel, Eunie Vaillancourt; Louise, Naomi, Phoebe, Eunie; Eunie
WeinbauerVaillancourt


Naomi & Marilyn Waite & Louise Weinbauer


Naomi & Ralph Waite Sr, Ralph Sr, Jennifer, Deborah and Doug

The Last Lion of the Alhambra tells the story of a small boy who lives in the ancient castle built by the Moors in the ninth century AD. Only when one of the stone lions that surrounds a fountain comes to life does the boy learn that memory is the greatest treasure of the castle.
 
by Douglas Scott Waite of New York who is a doctor, poet, author, musician, artist and father
.

The lure of a Religious Missionary Journey must be an adventure, since it had a romantic attraction with its idealistic purpose and caused some young women to join. All that was needed were the Church teaching and bible training environment with tools for this missionary story to be told. The teacher became the ambassador for the imaginary journey. Harold Mackway Sr brain weakness may have been the requiring of self esteem renewal by romancing these women. He had the brain/soul which had the motive and he created the opportunity. The documents show he wanted to leave us a history we could later review.

AnnMarie's question: How did Harold Sr private documents get into the attic boxes of another family?
Familycousin received an email 2/23/10 where someone who found some documents which mentioned Harold Mackway Sr.  Two documents are from Chicago and one from Sellersville, Pa. The Sellersville document (October 1, 1940) is from missionary Niels Jacobsen from China. The Chicago pictures in these documents show perhaps his first wife Anna and their three children. The Rev Ralph Weitz Jr's father and step-mother lived in Quakertown & Sellersville.  His documents have been sent to us for familycousin posting here and AnnMarie review..

Ann Marie is the familycousin historian on Mackway. she came by it honestly since her father was Harold Jr, but she has really earned the role with brains and memory. Must be the Sullivan combined with the Scottish/German DNA in her since she has a fire tenacity in her brave heart.

Harold Sr born 1875 and found he had the brains and power of speech to lead others. So he became a minister but we assume his training came from apprenticeship in the Lutheran Church in Chicago, He married a Scottish woman Anna W. in 1899 and had three children. He left Anna and married Louise in 1907. Was Louise's minister, convinced her to run off with him to be missionaries. His divorce from his first wife was in the Chicago Sun Times.. We found letter to Rev Harold Mackway and Christian Fellowship Sellersville, Pa, dated October 1, 1940 from Niels Jacobsen Missionary in China. This letter and date confirms that Harold used church work later in Sellersville. But how did another family come to hold these two pictures and his missionary docs? What was his ministry role between the Chicago 1910 trip and the 1940 letters? His work was varied and he never materially did much to support the new Sellersville family. He was not a businessman and was not considered successful.
MackwayMissionary_pdf <- Harold Mackway Sr pictures We speculate that Harold went back to Chicago 1909-10 and had these portraits taken. He was concluding the divorce from Anna. Grandson Ralph had little contact with him even though he lived just up the alley from 17 Noble St..


Harold Sr, Wallace, Grace, Ruth Mackway - he divorced Anna

Osborn Clan has proven to be a stable family environment

The opportunity to contact and find cousins within the global internet is exciting. The use of DNA however I find the given information a challenge when DNA matches are found. The names range in variety with each email I find do not produce results. So the random browser search by many lead to good contacts. Ancestry.com is very helpful. The posting on family boards always gets interesting results. Actually I found my two Osborn cousins that way. Their eBooks are in cousin links here. The pictures below came from these Osborn leads.


The Osborn Clan is a very close family with long term soul mate relationships with many cousins.
Maybe it is the Blacksmith work ethic but the family is critical to this clan 's ancestry,
John Dexter and Grace, Bess Irene, Dick and Gerry Osborn can tell this story better then anyone.
See their eBook.
Sally (also called Sarah) Ann Eldridge Osborn was the wife of Dexter Schuyler, in Depauville, NY. "Deck" was John Dexter first son born 5/5/1849. See Dick Osborn family notes - under eBook diosbo. Below is 1936 reunion of Osborn Clan - 4 years after Bess died.

Bess Osborn was Earle Chester Waite's Romantic Attraction - she was his Love Story.


Bess Irene Osborn died of cancer in 1932, Earle three marriages never could recover/renew the loss
. Don, Ralph Sr, and Marion also felt her loss but their families became the legacy of Bess and Earle's romance.


Don, Ralph Sr, Bess, Marion

The Bess & Earle Legacy
With romance they gave life to generations of Waites families.


Waite Legacy: 3 Ralph Sr, 2 Don, 1Earle, 4 Ralph, 5 Douglas, 6 Ben and 7 Jason
8 Marion, 9 Deborah, 10 Jennifer, 11 Jennifer E, 12 Kelsey, 13 Ashley. 14 Nate, 15 Katie, 16 Doris, 17 Jim 18 Dan, 19 Don, 20 Michael, 21 Erin
 

Doug & Ralph Sr


Doug and Ralph Sr in Earle Waite's Sailboat Silver Birches Wallenpaupack Poconos


 Ancestry passed DNA gives us our physical human body or Temple and appearance characteristics. But then God's "soul" is transferred to this Temple and it is what makes us a unique individual. Soul allows us to go well beyond this physical Temple. The Soul may be the basis for attraction and continues even after the Temple is aging. This attraction renewal seems to continue even as we get older - just like the hummer, we may seek flowers to renew, but for our soul. Ralph Jr 3/106/10 (select picture for Phineas compare)

Osborn Crest, Wee Dram, Anglo Saxon Mask, Waite crest


Wee Dram List
Wee Dram
: Why use the dollar for wages. A cousin of mine said we should use gold. 
But when an alternative to gold is a family Celtic tradition, it makes sense for some transactions.
Like, I provide local computer services and only receive payment with a bottle of Wee Dram - only good aged single  e
 Malt Scotch accepted from my list.
Recent payments have been Macallan 18 old, Oban 14 old and GlenMorangie 15 old.

Trivia sometimes is in our human Nature


Even Nature's has Genealogy  We are digging for current and ancestry folks - searching like the flicker for new stuff. Cousin, will you help us, with new details, in this family search?
Nature's male and female privately pursue making life's renewal  
.

Family Events The living values shown by our cousins represent the inherent traditions
granted our family by our parents. We have an obligation to pass it on to the next generation. We have new photos coming from Jim Hall scanning his 35mm slides. These have been placed in the Cousin Links on Hall eBook
Marion Waite Hall Blog

This is an internet search for family people from 1.Czech - Majer, 2. England - Waite w/dna, 2. England - Masters, 3. England - Osborn w/dna, 4. Prussian - Keitz, 5. UK - Wilson, Daniels, 6. England, Scotland - Mackway and more.
 Select the Cousin eBooks to start or the Flicker picture to go to Dexnow.com with some Dylan, a creative link.
Our Tree
The search among surviving relatives is still the preferred way to gain insight on the past family history. Since most of us have immigration ancestors we need to gain relative links to the country of origin. In some cases we are lucky to find a church record or village person in the search. We have taken dna samples in the Waite and Osborn families. However the similar dna samples do not often give us a contact of information. So we go back to search engines to provide contacts.

 Our hope is that this website will foster communications, like years ago at grandma's home gathering feasts.
Today, we gather with blogs, shared pictures, email postings and text messages.
 

Welcome cousins'. I want to give you my gift from a fellow cousin. Try the best 3 meat Texas Chili, just go to http://dexnow.com/recipes/ and make my recipe now  and see some sexy walking to Bob Dylan's "Thunder Mountain". Please allow me to share with you the romantic reason I make hot chili.

See the gene of Bess Irene Osborn in the my grand daughters. Compare her likeness with the prom pictures.
Grandchildren are
Amazing
Latest Wee Dram Report continues house search in Chicago maps for Vaillancourt Hawthorne Place. After 1870 Chicago experienced a Great Fire and World Fair becoming an opportunity for our Mackway, Vaillancourt, Weinbauer families to move there.

Richard "Dick" Osborn has expanded his "living Blacksmith family eBook" with new experiences. go there

Family Cousin is dedicated to opening all doors to family and environmental issues for the love of life.
There is nothing to be ashamed of in life.
Hide nothing from yesterday history and today.
We are made by god and all we live and love is acceptable in our nature.
Every Body is on loan as a temple from god so we should treat it with reverence.


raise the Mystic Bridge - select picture


Mystic Surrounding Pleasures
Mystic River Seaport CT.
We came by water to America and still love to sail..
The use of dna in addition to ancestry.com for genealogy research are basic starter kit tools today. It quickly broadens with search engines of family beyond your expectations. The domains names becomes means for active minds to research and you are quickly joined by new found cousins. Why Jefferson County in upstate New York was a strong center for my family is not clear. Boston, New York and Baltimore ports of entry were the starting point for most new arrivals. Then they moved to Long Island and Connecticut which already were more advanced. Then upstate New York had jobs in railroads - plus town jobs because of population growth. Family members often followed earlier generations of family cousins who told of the opportunity in the new land. Our story is not unique on the internet but the family people are unique. The family tree is filled with names and stories filled with success and failures - we may never know. But we keep digging over the bones and find more details through new information that is provided by our newly found cousins.


Seaport Lighthouse and sailing Mystic River CT

The FamilyCousin Tree of life is given renewal through Romantic Attractions

Family Cousin want to thank everyone who shares by contribution a picture or a story about life. The world is better because of you.

See Diary of Ralph Dexter Waite Sr - eBook "My two years in Bethlehem and the Washington House in Sellersville Pa."
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